Soi Can Never Date Again Because I Have a Girls Name Tattooed to Me?
NWR: if your husband had another woman tattooed on him...
Would you brand him become information technology covered upwardly? My husband has his ex tattooed on his arm. Information technology'due south two hearts with his proper name & her name. It's a bad tattoo if y'all ask me so it'south non even noticeable because he has very dark pare. We've been talking about getting matching lock & fundamental tattoos and when I mentioned it to my cousin she was like "well he should get her name covered first". I'm like "yea only I'grand not really worried most it", she says "no she has to become!". It's non that big of a deal to me, it's not similar it'southward on his chest & I'm looking down at it equally I'yard making honey to him. I sometimes forget it's even in that location until I'm scanning his body considering he'south sexy lol. I was but curious to know if any of yous ladies would press the event or if you have this issue. Interested to hear your thoughts...cheers!
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Expert September 2014
Melissa ·
You said that it's not really that visible since his peel is really dark? Would y'all make him go it lasered off or would you go him to encompass information technology upward with something? At first, I thought you meant he had her face on him (lol sorry) but if you don't actually care that much, I wouldn't make information technology a huge deal. Bring it up to him and see what he has to say about it.
Master September 2014
KimS ·
IF FH had i, I would ask that he comprehend it. He would be more than than happy to do it, as well, then I don't think I'd have to "press".
Master August 2015
Yeah, I would make him get that covered, only that's just me. If information technology's not a big bargain to you lot don't worry most it.
Chief May 2014
Chantel ·
Sooooo....I am going to hear comments merely I dont care. Lol .. it is the contrary on my end. I accept my ex (my daughters begetter) on my thigh. How it got there is a long story. Anyway, of course hubby knows about it, but never presses the upshot. He has actually only brought it up once. My plan is to absolutely get it covered, just havent fabricated it yet. I dont wear shorts a lot anyway, and then nearly people dont fifty-fifty know I have information technology. When we are at the embankment no i knows what it says. So... I would say if it doesnt bother you, then it shouldnt matter what anyone else says. Yous exercise what works for y'all. Patently he isnt pining over her since he married you lot. Simply my 2 cents
VIP April 2014
Shaquaya ·
@Melissa lol if it was her face he would definitely accept to get that covered. I would probably simply make him get her name shaded. We talked almost information technology earlier and he doesn't mind doing it. I'm simply not in a rush to have him do it. When my cousin made it seem like a big deal information technology but made me wonder how many other women experience the same style
Chief August 2013
OMW ·
Eh. That was his past. It wouldn't bother me (I don't think). I would as well hope that he would desire it to get it covered, merely if he had a really good reason (i.due east. she died), then I wouldn't pressure him.
Super August 2014
If it doesn't carp you, I wouldn't worry about it. Similar you said, you barely notice it, and you know you're the dearest of his life.
VIP Apr 2014
Shaquaya ·
@Chantel oooollllll lol j/k. I want a thigh tattoo and so bad though! But that'southward how I experience, nobody actually knows it's there unless they already knew about it only no ane is gonna walk up on him like "what does that say" lol. He is covered in tattoos so it's surrounded by a lot of other things, information technology'south not like it stands out. And only similar you lot said, he is not checking for girlfriend, he knows what he has :-) SN: she was wack anyway LMBO!
Skillful September 2014
Melissa ·
@Shaquaya (beautiful name btw) information technology seriously is your human relationship and if neither one of you feel as if it is a pressing outcome and you lot're conspicuously secure in your relationship, exercise non allow someone else bump in and make you question a decision that you lot felt was non-issue. Everyone has an stance simply YOURS is the only one that counts. I personally wouldn't want my FH to have another girl's proper noun on him and I'd inquire to take him become it removed/covered (with my face
lol kidding) but that is something that would happen within my relationship. Outside views are but that, outside. 
VIP Apr 2021
My husband has my name(shoulder) and i have his(wrist). If he had someone else name on him and we is married yea i would ask him to comprehend it up. My husband is nighttime skinned as well. Im sure my married man would ask me the same if i had another proper noun on me.
Master March 2015
KM ·
No way...information technology would give me grounds to make fun of him forever! He already has the "Mom in a heart" tattoo. I recall information technology'southward funny.
VIP April 2014
Shaquaya ·
@Melissa thanks, I don't similar my name but that's a whole different story lol. Yous're and so correct, my stance is key here & I'm very secure. I know she wouldn't stand a chance of coming back into his life. LOL @ covering it with your confront...hmmm at present that's an thought ;-)
@KristenMichelle LOL I do often make little jokes well-nigh information technology and we both laugh. It's just non that serious to me, probably considering it'southward not very noticeable.
Skillful April 2020
doeydo ·
I don't know why anyone would have their ex'south proper noun tattooed on them and not want it covered upwards or removed, unless they still had feelings for their ex. And so yeah, if FI had a tattoo of an ex'southward proper noun, I would want that shit covered upward or removed via laser hair removal.
When my sis was dating her at present hubs, he had his ex's name tattooed. He swore he would never cover information technology because it was "part of his history." Well once she had his child and they got married, she fabricated him cover that bitch right up! Lol. Yep, I would desire it covered too.
VIP April 2014
Shaquaya ·
@Doeydo I disagree that he all the same has to have feelings for her. It's non that he doesn't want it covered, neither of u.s. are in a blitz to have it done and if I really wanted him to do it that desperately he would. Only it just doesn't matter to me. I know he doesn't accept feelings for the girl and he's not worried about her. That tattoo means nothing, I accept his heart :-) She can take that ugly ink that's hardly legible
Super August 2014
tnovak ·
I'k non really a jealous person and if my FH had a tattoo of another women's name I think I would merely let it be. Its similar a scar...you beloved them for it anyway.
FYI on laser tattoo removal. I have had 4 treatments to remove a tattoo on my ankle and information technology is expensive and very painful and I am not getting much results. I don't recall light amplification by stimulated emission of radiation is worth it.
Chief May 2014
Chantel ·
@Shaquaya I know correct! But whatever, it is what it is. My plan is to have itcovered earlier the twelvemonth is out, but I need to.find someone that will do a good chore. I dont need to be looking like I went to the jail amd got information technology done. My husband doesnt take any tat's at all. He mentioned us getting matching ones since we accept the aforementioned initials at present, but I will believe that when I see it!
VIP April 2014
Shaquaya ·
@tnovak/2b2Shay I'm not really a jealous person either...and if information technology'south painful to him AND expensive I wouldn't even consider having him do it.
VIP Apr 2014
Shaquaya ·
@Chantel lol exactly, covered tattoos can expect messy. It's so small & surrounded by things that take no relevance so I feel like the only thing he can do is to just become the heart completely shaded in. I like the matching tat idea. Nosotros agreed on the lock and key tats just nosotros're trying to detect room on his body LOL his whole breast, stomach, back, both artillery are covered!
Cricket Catering ·
If it doesn't bother y'all, then go information technology covered when you get effectually to it. Every i of us has a past. It shaped the states into the people we are today. Perchance his experience with her not being the correct one makes him capeesh you even more since you lot are the correct 1.